To live your life now, go after what you are longing and dreaming about, it doesn’t have to be the big things, it’s more a matter of being you. I have an old father with dementia and spending time with him reminds me to live now. His fading memory comes in waves, sometimes I think about when he will be all gone in the forgetfulness. His mind transport him to another time and space, searching for comforting memories or a more safe, quiet or shut down place. It’s a huge shift in how to relate and identity with him. Before dementia he was very outgoing, social, knew so many people and engaged in a lot of things, now he is the opposite, I really have to keep myself openminded and compassionate with him, and also towards myself and my own identity related to him.
I have several times offered mediumship sessions for relatives to people with dementia and alzheimer’s- and its so touching to sense the healing and comfort it is for the them to know their relatives are still keeping a bond on a soul level.
24 TOP REGRETS OF THE DYING
*Recorded by hospice nurses around the world.
◦ I wish I hadn’t spent so much time worrying about things that never happened
I wish I had :
◦ the courage to just be myself
◦ spent more time with the people I love
◦ made spirituality more of a priority
◦ hadn’t spent so much time working
◦ discovered my purpose earlier
◦ learned to express my feelings more
◦ taken more risks
◦ cared less about what other people thought
◦ realized earlier that happiness is a choice
◦ loved more
◦ taken better care of myself
◦ been a better spouse
◦ paid less attention to other people’s expectations
◦ quit my job and found something I really enjoyed doing
◦ stayed in touch with old friends
◦ spoken my mind more
◦ hadn’t spent so much time chasing the wrong things
◦ more children
◦ touched more lives
◦ thought about life’s big question earlier
◦ traveled more
◦ lived more in the moment
◦ pursued more of my dreams
you are enough
waiting, watching, connecting to a wellknown universe – you are sacred every moment in whatever you do and are, thinking it has to be in a certain way, ceremonially or a specific place, let go of that, every moment is our medicine, awaken, alive, in our heart there is nothing to do or be or…
uncertain
the uncomfortable feeling of being in-between the one I was and the one Im becoming expanding, stretching, shedding, evolving, less of the old – more of the new some days slow and silent, other days fast and loud, some something else there is no ready, just expression and allowing free your energy all of you…
owning who you are
be proud of who you are and have done, just remember you are not our accomplishments – you are your energy, your soul, what you are here, present, alive, in the world to experience it. not all people are qualified to tell you who you are sense the truth through your gut, no matter what…
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